Fiancée got upset at me helping her and I’m not sure what to do.

2022.01.18 09:42 PromisingHelp Fiancée got upset at me helping her and I’m not sure what to do.

Hello all,
My fiancée is starting a new career field and going through her first few classes. She is extremely interested in the subject matter, but she has severe doubts in her capabilities to learn the material. I am helping her out with the whole process almost as a tutor of sorts, she does the assignments and tests and I just help her understand different concepts and that sort of thing, which I think is working for her.
She has been told a lot in her life (even from loved ones) that she is “stupid” or “dumb” and I hate that. She is certainly not any of those things, and I don’t understand why anyone would shoot her down in such a way, especially as a child.
Those thoughts have sadly stuck with her throughout the years and kinda prevented her from higher learning even. She constantly wants reassurance that she is doing things correctly or that she is capable and how she is capable.
And here is the issue. I try very hard to let her know how amazing she is, how she has been able to learn a multitude of things since I have known her, and going into examples even. But she constantly feels like it’s not enough. That the only way she would be smart is if she was Mensa qualified or something of that sort. I have tried every which way I know how to let her know how she is able to do anything she chooses in life, it may take time and effort, but she can get there and I’ll help in any way I can, however it doesn’t seem to click very well.
Tonight, we got into an argument about it because I was trying to reassure her, and she didn’t like the words I used to do so. I told her that she was able to do all of these things and learn, and that if she does struggle on anything that I will be there and help her through the learning process. We could make flash cards and little games to learn things, etc. etc.
For some reason she said “that’s not what I need right now, that doesn’t help anything.” I got upset because I am really trying to do whatever I can for her and I don’t quite know where I went wrong there when both reassuring her that she is capable of doing these things (with examples as to why), and offering all the help I can, letting her know how I also struggled at times too.
I’m just at a loss as to how to help her see what it is I see in her. Any advice on how to do so would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks all!
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